Are Your Rules Blocking Your Desires?

Hey love,

Let’s get into something that might be keeping you stuck without you even realizing it…

Your rules.

You know, the ones that sound like:

– “I have to lose weight before I date again.”
– “If he wanted to, he would.”
– “I can’t be too much or I’ll scare him off.”
– “I need to heal everything before I can receive love.”
– “I can’t rest until I’ve done enough to earn it.”

Here’s the thing…

Rules feel like safety.
But most of the time?

They’re cages.

Boxes you’ve built to avoid pain.....
But they’re also keeping you from the love, freedom, and life you crave.

So today, I want you to ask yourself:

🧠 What are the invisible rules I’m living by?
📦 What boxes have I built around love, success, my body, or being seen?
⚖️ Do these rules actually serve me—or are they stealing my freedom?
💭 Where did I learn them? Who gave them to me?
🔥 Am I ready to break the rule that says I have to earn my desires?

Because rules might give the illusion of control…

But they rarely create connection, magic, or miracles.

Freedom does.

Freedom to show up as your whole self.
Freedom to be messy and still worthy.
Freedom to choose a new path, even if it scares you.

You get to rewrite the rules.
You get to expand beyond the box.
You get to walk in freedom energy—and that’s when everything changes.

So I’ll leave you with this:

What would your life, your love, your SELF look like if you stopped playing by the rules that were never meant for the woman you’re becoming?

Let’s find out!

With love,
Jenn 💋