Are You Trying or Deciding?

In relationships—just like in life—there’s a world of difference between trying and deciding.

When you’re trying to make something work, there’s hesitation. You’re dipping your toes in, hoping circumstances will align, but deep down, there’s uncertainty. You’re giving it effort, but with an escape route in mind, just in case it doesn’t work out.

But when you decide it’s going to work, everything shifts.

Decision carries a different energy. It’s unwavering. It’s the moment you commit fully, no matter the obstacles, because you’ve anchored yourself to the outcome. You’re not waiting for circumstances to be perfect—you’re creating the outcome you desire through your unwavering belief and aligned actions.

Think about it: How often do we try in our relationships, businesses, or personal growth, leaving room for doubt? What if, instead, we decided success was inevitable?

Your relationships reflect this energy. Are you just trying to make it work, or have you decided it will work, no matter what?

Your answer will determine your results.

Decide today. 🌹♥️

With love, Jenn