Reigniting Polarity in Your Relationship

Let’s talk about something that might feel a little uncomfortable at first but can completely transform the dynamic in your relationship…

The art of asking, “May I?”

Now, I know what you might be thinking: "Why should I ask permission when I’m perfectly capable of doing things myself?"

But here’s the thing—this isn’t about capability. You’re strong, independent, and amazing.

This is about reigniting polarity in your relationship—the spark that naturally exists when masculine and feminine energies are in harmony.

When you use soft, permissive language like “May I?” or “Would you mind if…?” you’re not giving up your power. You’re actually doing the opposite: You’re allowing yourself to relax into your feminine energy—that beautiful, magnetic energy that thrives on trust, flow, and being led. And at the same time, you’re inviting your partner to step up and lead in his masculine energy.

You’re empowering him to provide, protect, and guide—roles that many men are naturally wired for but often feel disconnected from in modern relationships.

Yes, this does feel weird at first. We’ve been taught to be self-sufficient and independent (and there’s nothing wrong with that), but when we carry that energy into our relationships, it can unintentionally block intimacy and connection.

I promise, the more you lean into this practice, the more natural it will feel. You’ll begin to notice how good it feels to let go, trust, and receive. And your partner? He’ll feel more confident, more connected, and more driven to show up for you in ways you’ve always craved.

Imagine this: Instead of feeling like you’re always in control (and exhausted because of it), you’ll feel cherished, supported, and desired. That’s the power of feminine energy in action. And once you experience that? You’ll never want to go back.

Like a pain of pants, I want you to try this on for a week and see how it feels. If you don't have a partner, try it with your kids. Or your male collegues. Let me know how it goes! 🌹♥️

With love, Jenn